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  The question I seem to get asked most is… Do you date only younger men? Well the answer is……… NO! I am 47 and happily married to a man 9 years my junior. We have been together for 10 yrs. If I were still single, I would date any man regardless of age as long as he was CHAR...

  Ladies, it happens to us all: for whatever reason—be it loneliness, heartbreak, or just feeling in a funk—we get the blues. Lord knows I’ve been there! The trick is not to stay there long… and in not waiting around for someone else to pull you out of it. That’s right, it’s up to you t...

  So your ship hasn’t come in?  And you’re sitting around wretched and sad,  waiting for it to sail in? You’re depressed, melancholy, glum, forlorn, and filled with despair.   God knows you have the absolute inherent right to all these gruesome, obnoxious, and disgusting feel...

From a man’s perspective: We live in a world of porn. Everything is sex, sex, sex. I’m sick of it! Like anything else, porn has a place in society but as a nation we’ve let it get out of hand…. “X- rated” this “X- rated” that we are overwhelmed by it&...

  Still waiting for the perfect man? Keep waiting! It’s never going to happen…ever!. Perfect men do not exist, and never have (didn’t your mother tell you?)! Cougar women know that perfect is impossible, and might be boring…so imperfect with great abs, a great butt, a great ...

Women are always asking me “Why do men love to watch porn?” I might be in the minority, but I personally don’t care for it all that much. I love sex in all forms… sensual, erotic, passionate, dirty. It all works for me. What I don’t like is sex and violence. Most porn degrades ...

Being strong, assertive, bold, and daring requires some practice. It is a process of learning to do what’s right for yourself and actually making things happen. It’s astounding and almost miraculous how your world will change once you really take the reigns and decide what you want and g...

  Men.  The light of my life.  And yet also equal parts the bane of my existence.  It seems to be a popular topic lately around here at Cougar Candy Store, as Linda so surely put it.  Is it something in the water?  Something midsummer-ish in their immature behavior?  Whatever it is…we a...

  I love summer.  I mean, wow, I can’t even tell you how much I love summertime.  Maybe it’s the proliferation of events centered around hot dogs and popsicles, maybe it’s weekend trips to the beach, or perhaps the easy yet fashionable choice to wear floaty empire-waisted sundre...

  Finally after so many years of holding onto my “skinny jeans” I’ve decided it’s time for us to part. Out they go! I’m not 29 anymore, and I’m sick of making myself believe that I ONLY look my best when I can fit into those jeans. I’m a new better and improved wom...