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Don’t Call Me A Cougar!
By Tomkat on July 16, 2010
  I say, why not! It is a reference meaning you are a strong, confident woman with a spirit about life. Would you rather be referred to as “boring”, “no zest for life” or “over the hill”? Calling you a C...

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