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  I say, why not! It is a reference meaning you are a strong, confident woman with a spirit about life. Would you rather be referred to as “boring”, “no zest for life” or “over the hill”? Calling you a Cougar is just saying you are fun and spirited. It does not m...

From a man’s perspective: Lets face it, and even a few women will admit it…“Valentine’s Day Sucks.” .The stress Valentine’s has put on couples is ridiculous. Did I buy the right gift? Will he or she like it? Did I choose a romantic restaurant? Enough stress to send anyone...

From a man’s perspective: I crack up every time I hear people say “your doomed if you find a mate at a bar.” A bar is a great place to meet. Some of my best relationships have been with women I’ve met at the local or un local watering holes. I bet half the married couples on ear...

  From a man’s perspective: After a recent conversation with Cougar Candy Store founder Janet Williams I was really intrigued to answer this question: “What is more appealing to a man….. a Belly Dancer or a Stripper?” To be quite honest, I’ve never even given it a second thou...

From a man’s perspective: There is no proper way to judge a woman. Every person, man or woman, has a different opinion from size, shape and color. I’m always asked. Do men prefer skinny or curvy women? My opinion, and that of many men I asked the answer is simple. Men prefer a curvy wom...

From a man’s perspective: I recently received a question from a male member who asked me about “Being the other man.” He’s in a relationship with a married woman 45. He is 27 and very confused. This is a subject that I hate to admit to, but I have more than a few experiences. I thin...

  From a man’s perspective: A member recently sent me a question. “Why do men judge women when they themselves are overweight? “I am tired of my husband telling me to get in better shape when he is such a fat slob”. First I laughed. Then after thinking about it I realized, of my group o...

Women are always asking me “Why do men love to watch porn?” I might be in the minority, but I personally don’t care for it all that much. I love sex in all forms… sensual, erotic, passionate, dirty. It all works for me. What I don’t like is sex and violence. Most porn degrades ...

  From a man’s perspective: I see so many beautiful women who don’t even know they are beautiful. Why does that happen? Why don’t they know how truly beautiful they are? What’s going on? Well I’m here to try and figure that out. When was the last time you told your wif...

Times are tough for women (and of course everyone else) no more useless shopping trips to the mall for clothes and crap you really didn’t need anyway. But alas, you still have an “Ace” in the deck called your closet! You know that bottomless pit that soaks up new clothes from last year tha...