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From a man’s perspective: Lets face it, and even a few women will admit it…“Valentine’s Day Sucks.” .The stress Valentine’s has put on couples is ridiculous. Did I buy the right gift? Will he or she like it? Did I choose a romantic restaurant? Enough stress to send anyone...

From a man’s perspective: I crack up every time I hear people say “your doomed if you find a mate at a bar.” A bar is a great place to meet. Some of my best relationships have been with women I’ve met at the local or un local watering holes. I bet half the married couples on ear...

  From a man’s perspective: After a recent conversation with Cougar Candy Store founder Janet Williams I was really intrigued to answer this question: “What is more appealing to a man….. a Belly Dancer or a Stripper?” To be quite honest, I’ve never even given it a second thou...

From a man’s perspective: There is no proper way to judge a woman. Every person, man or woman, has a different opinion from size, shape and color. I’m always asked. Do men prefer skinny or curvy women? My opinion, and that of many men I asked the answer is simple. Men prefer a curvy wom...

  I say, why not! It is a reference meaning you are a strong, confident woman with a spirit about life. Would you rather be referred to as “boring”, “no zest for life” or “over the hill”? Calling you a Cougar is just saying you are fun and spirited. It does not m...

  From a man’s perspective: My new favorite show of the season (by a mile) is The Good Wife on CBS starring Julianna Margulies and Chris Noth ( Sex in the City’s “Big”). This show has a great story line about a politician caught cheating on his wife with a prostitute. Sounds like re...

From a man’s perspective: Courteney Cox is definitely a Hollywood Hottie, but today I’m writing about her guts, not her looks. I think it takes guts to put her image and acting credibility on the line to star in a show like “Cougar Town”. Courteney is breaking new ground leading the...

From a man’s perspective: I recently received a question from a male member who asked me about “Being the other man.” He’s in a relationship with a married woman 45. He is 27 and very confused. This is a subject that I hate to admit to, but I have more than a few experiences. I thin...

  From a man’s perspective: You can bet your ASS we do! Why the hell not. Like the perfect dirty martini these women are strong, smooth and just sweet enough to want more. As a man in 1998 I was reluctant to give these women the time of day. I figured what a stupid show. I was being a nice g...

  From a man’s perspective: New question from a Fabulous Member. “I am married to a younger man and everyone thinks I’m a Cougar. Am I a Cougar? Wow! have times changed. Is it fair to label a married woman as a “Cougar” just because her husband is a few years younger? Great questi...