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  From a man’s perspective: After a recent conversation with Cougar Candy Store founder Janet Williams I was really intrigued to answer this question: “What is more appealing to a man….. a Belly Dancer or a Stripper?” To be quite honest, I’ve never even given it a second thou...

  The question I seem to get asked most is… Do you date only younger men? Well the answer is……… NO! I am 47 and happily married to a man 9 years my junior. We have been together for 10 yrs. If I were still single, I would date any man regardless of age as long as he was CHAR...

  I say, why not! It is a reference meaning you are a strong, confident woman with a spirit about life. Would you rather be referred to as “boring”, “no zest for life” or “over the hill”? Calling you a Cougar is just saying you are fun and spirited. It does not m...

  Good parking spaces, like good men are exceedingly hard to come by during the holidays. Men are so insanely and inherently different than women. It seems we spend our entire lives trying to snag one, hitch one, keep one, make him happy, and then train him to make us happy. So much energy and so m...

  I have gotten plenty of feedback over the years from my single clients. I thought it might be helpful to know some of the feedback I often get as a matchmaker in terms of what people don’t want to have in a future partner. Here are the comments I hear most often.  A partner who “jumps th...

  From a man’s perspective: If you’re just looking for “a quickie” or some instant satisfaction, do you really need chemistry? I don’t think so……… you’re a woman on the prowl .You have a need to cure and yes it’s called “sex”. No problem. It h...

  Where is that exciting take charge positive lifestyle you always wanted? Most people, not Cougar women…… just let life take them in any direction. They float along, follow their shadows, and follow the maddening crowd. The assertive Cougar woman doesn’t. She needs and craves a l...

From a man’s perspective: We live in a world of porn. Everything is sex, sex, sex. I’m sick of it! Like anything else, porn has a place in society but as a nation we’ve let it get out of hand…. “X- rated” this “X- rated” that we are overwhelmed by it&...

  Exult, celebrate, rejoice, delight, dance, sing, and shout! Cougars have finally gone mainstream. We have officially made it! The word Cougar now is synonymous with excitement, desirability, intelligence, and sexiness. The term “Cougar” has meaning, respect, and panache all around the world�...

  So does this mean that eating lots of nuts makes you a nut? I certainly don’t believe so; and I think it’d be too easy if you could just look out for the people eating nuts all the time and stay clear away from them just in case, right? While I don’t know if I’d go as far as saying those ...