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Don’t Call Me A Cougar!
By Tomkat on July 16, 2010 | 12 Comments
I say, why not! It is a reference meaning you are a strong, confident woman with a spirit about life. Would you rather be referred to as “boring”, “no zest for life” or “over the hill”? Calling you a Cougar is just saying you are fun and spirited. It does not m... -
Sometimes It’s Better to be a Dog
By Tomkat on February 10, 2010 | 5 Comments
From a man’s perspective: Lets face it, and even a few women will admit it…“Valentine’s Day Sucks.” .The stress Valentine’s has put on couples is ridiculous. Did I buy the right gift? Will he or she like it? Did I choose a romantic restaurant? Enough stress to send anyone... -
Hooking up at a Bar
By Tomkat on February 7, 2010 | 3 Comments
From a man’s perspective: I crack up every time I hear people say “your doomed if you find a mate at a bar.” A bar is a great place to meet. Some of my best relationships have been with women I’ve met at the local or un local watering holes. I bet half the married couples on ear... -
Belly Dancer Vs Stripper
By Tomkat on February 5, 2010 | 34 Comments
From a man’s perspective: After a recent conversation with Cougar Candy Store founder Janet Williams I was really intrigued to answer this question: “What is more appealing to a man….. a Belly Dancer or a Stripper?” To be quite honest, I’ve never even given it a second thou... -
Curves are Sexy
By Tomkat on January 23, 2010 | 6 Comments
From a man’s perspective: There is no proper way to judge a woman. Every person, man or woman, has a different opinion from size, shape and color. I’m always asked. Do men prefer skinny or curvy women? My opinion, and that of many men I asked the answer is simple. Men prefer a curvy wom... -
Sex and Chemistry
By Tomkat on November 7, 2009 | 15 Comments
From a man’s perspective: If you’re just looking for “a quickie” or some instant satisfaction, do you really need chemistry? I don’t think so……… you’re a woman on the prowl .You have a need to cure and yes it’s called “sex”. No problem. It h... -
The Other Man
By Tomkat on September 30, 2009 | 4 Comments
From a man’s perspective: I recently received a question from a male member who asked me about “Being the other man.” He’s in a relationship with a married woman 45. He is 27 and very confused. This is a subject that I hate to admit to, but I have more than a few experiences. I thin... -
Bring Sexy Back!
By Tomkat on September 22, 2009 | 10 Comments
From a man’s perspective: We live in a world of porn. Everything is sex, sex, sex. I’m sick of it! Like anything else, porn has a place in society but as a nation we’ve let it get out of hand…. “X- rated” this “X- rated” that we are overwhelmed by it&... -
Being Judged by an Overweight Husband
By Tomkat on August 13, 2009 | 3 Comments
From a man’s perspective: A member recently sent me a question. “Why do men judge women when they themselves are overweight? “I am tired of my husband telling me to get in better shape when he is such a fat slob”. First I laughed. Then after thinking about it I realized, of my group o... -
Men and “Porn”
By Tomkat on August 6, 2009 | 7 Comments
Women are always asking me “Why do men love to watch porn?” I might be in the minority, but I personally don’t care for it all that much. I love sex in all forms… sensual, erotic, passionate, dirty. It all works for me. What I don’t like is sex and violence. Most porn degrades ...








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