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About TomkatYou have questions, Tom Kat has answers from a man's perspective. He will tell you what he knows to help with your “BAD BOY” troubles. The foremost authority on BAD BOY BEHAVIOR! TOMKAT has been prowling Classy, Sexy Women known as “Cougars” his entire life. “ I love you Ladies; always have and always will. You give those twenty-something girls a lot to look forward too. Don't be fooled! You have what they desire” Submit a question and I will always answer you back.

Latest Posts by Tomkat

  • Don’t Call Me A Cougar!
    By Tomkat on July 16, 2010 | 12 Comments12 Comments  Comments
      I say, why not! It is a reference meaning you are a strong, confident woman with a spirit about life. Would you rather be referred to as “boring”, “no zest for life” or “over the hill”? Calling you a Cougar is just saying you are fun and spirited. It does not m...
  • Sometimes It’s Better to be a Dog
    By Tomkat on February 10, 2010 | 5 Comments5 Comments  Comments
    From a man’s perspective: Lets face it, and even a few women will admit it…“Valentine’s Day Sucks.” .The stress Valentine’s has put on couples is ridiculous. Did I buy the right gift? Will he or she like it? Did I choose a romantic restaurant? Enough stress to send anyone...
  • Hooking up at a Bar
    By Tomkat on February 7, 2010 | 3 Comments3 Comments  Comments
    From a man’s perspective: I crack up every time I hear people say “your doomed if you find a mate at a bar.” A bar is a great place to meet. Some of my best relationships have been with women I’ve met at the local or un local watering holes. I bet half the married couples on ear...
  • Belly Dancer Vs Stripper
    By Tomkat on February 5, 2010 | 34 Comments34 Comments  Comments
      From a man’s perspective: After a recent conversation with Cougar Candy Store founder Janet Williams I was really intrigued to answer this question: “What is more appealing to a man….. a Belly Dancer or a Stripper?” To be quite honest, I’ve never even given it a second thou...
  • Curves are Sexy
    By Tomkat on January 23, 2010 | 6 Comments6 Comments  Comments
    From a man’s perspective: There is no proper way to judge a woman. Every person, man or woman, has a different opinion from size, shape and color. I’m always asked. Do men prefer skinny or curvy women? My opinion, and that of many men I asked the answer is simple. Men prefer a curvy wom...
  • Sex and Chemistry
    By Tomkat on November 7, 2009 | 15 Comments15 Comments  Comments
      From a man’s perspective: If you’re just looking for “a quickie” or some instant satisfaction, do you really need chemistry? I don’t think so……… you’re a woman on the prowl .You have a need to cure and yes it’s called “sex”. No problem. It h...
  • The Other Man
    By Tomkat on September 30, 2009 | 4 Comments4 Comments  Comments
    From a man’s perspective: I recently received a question from a male member who asked me about “Being the other man.” He’s in a relationship with a married woman 45. He is 27 and very confused. This is a subject that I hate to admit to, but I have more than a few experiences. I thin...
  • Bring Sexy Back!
    By Tomkat on September 22, 2009 | 10 Comments10 Comments  Comments
    From a man’s perspective: We live in a world of porn. Everything is sex, sex, sex. I’m sick of it! Like anything else, porn has a place in society but as a nation we’ve let it get out of hand…. “X- rated” this “X- rated” that we are overwhelmed by it&...
  • Being Judged by an Overweight Husband
    By Tomkat on August 13, 2009 | 3 Comments3 Comments  Comments
      From a man’s perspective: A member recently sent me a question. “Why do men judge women when they themselves are overweight? “I am tired of my husband telling me to get in better shape when he is such a fat slob”. First I laughed. Then after thinking about it I realized, of my group o...
  • Men and “Porn”
    By Tomkat on August 6, 2009 | 7 Comments7 Comments  Comments
    Women are always asking me “Why do men love to watch porn?” I might be in the minority, but I personally don’t care for it all that much. I love sex in all forms… sensual, erotic, passionate, dirty. It all works for me. What I don’t like is sex and violence. Most porn degrades ...