We Love a Charming Man
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The question I seem to get asked most is… Do you date only younger men? Well the answer is……… NO! I am 47 and happily married to a man 9 years my junior. We have been together for 10 yrs. If I were still single, I would date any man regardless of age as long as he was CHARMING.The goal of Cougar Candy Store is to celebrate “Fabulous Women” married, single or in a relationship. What matters most is a woman deserves to be happy. She should laugh, love and be adored . It does not matter who she dates, marries or spends time with, what does matter is that she has a choice. I have many single girlfriends that date men of all ages. They all agree, all that matters is that he is a Charming Man. The same goes for my sassy, sexy married friends. At Cougar Candy what we celebrate… is a zest for life and the spirit of a sassy, sexy women.
A Charming Man does charming things when unexpected. He is there to share and make life a joy……… not a burden. He always has a SWEET compliment and a smile. He’s helpful and isn’t afraid of a confident woman. He has his own confidence….and loves the company!
We celebrate YOU the “Charming Man”….. married, single or just a great friend.
One of the things I love about any man is his “CHARM”. A man with “CHARM” can be any age 21 or 61. If he is charming and treats a woman with respect then by all means “I say date that charming man”.
In our members den we celebrate a smile. A smile can say much more than words. So if you are a charmer, 21 and older we invite you to share your smile. Who knows?…….. you may find a SWEET friend or a SWEETHEART. All it takes is a smile.
Here are some of my favorite “Charming Man” Qualities:
Has respect for women of any age
Confidence
Appreciates a sassy, sexy confident woman
A great cook… (cooking together is so much fun)
Listens when a woman needs a friend, not just a lover
Puts family before sports/TV
Dances even if he is shy….leads when SHE is shy.
Add your Charming Men qualities………….I love your comments!
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July 16, 2009 at 9:09 pm
Damn – I was doing SOOO well on that checklist … until the “cooking.” Oh alright, I’ll replace the battery in the fire alarm and have another stab at it … man alive, the fire department is gonna be really upset … you know … after last time and all ..
July 17, 2009 at 9:51 pm
Janet, you know me too well with one little change. I’m not shy and I love dancing, everything else is me. I enjoy cooking, I have always respected women of all ages. In fact most of my friends are women. My wife is definitely a sassy, sexy confident woman and my ultimate soulmate, so you have that spot on too. Janet you are the female version you charmer you. Genuine charming people have no hidden agenda, so it is natural to notice the positive qualities in others, regardless of gender.
July 18, 2009 at 1:25 pm
I love the dancing quality…if he can put his insecurities aside to let you feel great about yourself…that’s a keeper
July 18, 2009 at 4:33 pm
I have great respect for you, and your site. Thank you for having an appreciation for men of any age. Janet you are a beautiful woman, inside and out.
July 19, 2009 at 2:23 pm
Janet, after reading this page, I’ll feel even better when you call me your ‘charming friend’. You are not only sassy and sexy, but charming too. ( Is it ok for women to be charming?)
You should know, though, the only thing worse than my cooking is my dancing. But I’ve been cooking for myself for a few years now and I’m still alive – that’s something, right?
July 20, 2009 at 12:06 pm
LOL I love my charming man even if he can’t cook. LOL I sure am glad he’s 8 out of nine. Glad he knows my favorite restaurant
July 24, 2009 at 10:05 pm
Very good post – I think I lot of men either don’t have or have lost the skill of charm because today’s woman in many cases is just too “easy” or does not set the expectation of wanting to be charmed.
However, I have noticed that when they do encounter a “charming man” they’re taken off their feet so to speak.
Jim
July 26, 2009 at 10:25 am
It all boils down to being ‘present’ for the woman you love. Understanding her likes, her dislikes… understanding her dreams, her desires… her fears. Being her rock when she needs someone to just listen and getting the hell out of the way when she is on a mission. To not expect, to not judge.
It all boils down to being ‘present’ for the woman you love.
Wonderful read,
Darren
September 16, 2009 at 9:07 am
The most charming man I have ever known is always there when I need him and always brings a smile to my face. And he is sexy as hell, too!