Sex and Chemistry
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From a man’s perspective: If you’re just looking for “a quickie” or some instant satisfaction, do you really need chemistry? I don’t think so……… you’re a woman on the prowl .You have a need to cure and yes it’s called “sex”. No problem. It happens. As a man it happens a lot! So, I can imagine, a woman must feel the same now and then…. whether she admits it or not…. is another discussion. Sometimes in life, a person just needs to get “laid” it may not cure cancer, but it cures a need called an “ego” and so when “it” calls now and then, we just need it.
As a man on the prowl. I want a compatible person, but really does it matter if I will ever see the person again? No. I don’t need chemistry. I need a willing able body(and some protection). So, from a “horny woman’s” point of view I bet I’m easy prey. So, you lost you morals for one night, so what! No one cares you wake up feeling like a champ. You cured your urge and now you move on. I can say as a man, sometimes sex is the only cure and even if it’s by myself. Oh! Please….. don’t act like you never…..
















April 5, 2009 at 6:51 pm
Tomkat … is this really true? I think women tend to be a bit more selective when choosing a mate – even if only for a night. Thoughts?
April 6, 2009 at 11:05 pm
I’m no angel but I would never sleep with a man I did not find attractive even for one night. I will say this some friends of mine don’t care who it is when they are in the mood.
April 7, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Women think way to much, instead of just taking action.
April 20, 2009 at 11:02 pm
Without chemistry it’s just not worth it – at all!
April 20, 2009 at 11:46 pm
The last guy I had no chemistry with ended up being my ex-husband after 4 horrible years. I hope to be a little picky in the future.
April 21, 2009 at 10:25 am
On a few wild occasions, I can overlook chemistry for a hot guy. Who cares when it’s not long term anyways.
April 22, 2009 at 11:46 pm
Well, chemistry is key. But I’ve been disappointed with “HOT” guys and surprised with “nerd” guys. Go figure!
April 23, 2009 at 1:02 am
No chemistry is fine but he better be HOT!!
April 24, 2009 at 12:26 pm
Chemistry does not always work. How many times has Mr. Right turned out to be a big LIAR? Im fine with a quickie, as long as he has his own place to sleep.
April 24, 2009 at 3:33 pm
How can anyone have HOT SEX without chemistry? There has to be something to start the fire…a hot bod, a great smile, someone who smells wonderful, confidence, a sense of humor, hell even arrogance can be hot. But let us not forget the best…..many, many, many shots!!
May 6, 2009 at 9:39 pm
ok so maybe it doesnt have to be complete chemistry. Might be the way he smells, might be the glint in his eye…might even be just pure animale urge. And yes, I will admitt that I occasionally think about going for that pure animale lust. Only got a couple of things, be younger than me, so you can keep up, bring your protection and no we cant have breakfast together. Unless hes really hot then I will double dip before I send him home.
June 22, 2009 at 9:42 am
And who exactly are these guys having sex with? The premise is that it’s the men who have sex with women they don’t know well a lot… Unless there’s a whole bunch of gay men out there women are having almost the same amount of sex as men…
Statistically there are a lightly smaller number of men on the planet then women, however looking past that anomaly women sleep with as many men as men sleep with women… and IMHO women just lie about it more because of the stereotyping of a woman that sleeps around…
July 8, 2009 at 11:35 am
ROFLMAO, Tomkat you have got to be kidding!!! What women will actually sleep with someone without the chemistry? Wait, there is one and thats a prostitute!!!!
Thats why the business that I am in, Adult toys, is growing every day!!
August 13, 2009 at 12:24 pm
Cmon! Women are excatly the same as Men when it comes to Sex! Take Women off this Pedestal.
Most women are not able to go as long as Men without sex either!