Still waiting for the perfect man?
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Still waiting for the perfect man? Keep waiting! It’s never going to happen…ever!. Perfect men do not exist, and never have (didn’t your mother tell you?)! Cougar women know that perfect is impossible, and might be boring…so imperfect with great abs, a great butt, a great laugh and warm smile will do just fine! Don’t sit around waiting for Mr. Right, because that’s what patient ,worn out, and tired women are doing and will till the end of time. There is a lot to be said about Mr. RIGHT NOW! He is here, he is willing and able and he can do….well anything you want, so be creative. At the sake of being assertive and positive again…….Enjoy life, enjoy love, and live for today. Grab all that life has to give you this minute and combine it with a great attitude..a certain prescription for success. You never know who might saunter by and you might just have to grab something even more exciting! At least you won’t be sitting at this table with the girls waiting for Mr Perfect!
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Lately a lot of famous married men seem to be stepping out on their wives—and getting caught. The main reason they get caught is that the women they’re cheating with rat them out to the press. Who know why guys like Tiger Woods, Jesse James and David Boreanaz have steak at home, but insist on going out for dogburgers? But the motives of their consorts are pretty obvious—fame and money. The press insists on referring to these women as “mistresses.”
In days of old, a “mistress” was a woman who was “kept” by a married man, often a wealthy one. The “other woman” respected her man’s wife and family, and in return for being supported in style, she kept her mouth shut. The wife often knew about the mistress, but as long as she had the name, the house and the children, she also stayed quiet. Obviously, the new breed of “mistress” has little in common with her classier forerunners.
There are better terms to describe the strippers, nightclub hostesses, cocktail waitresses and porn stars who’ve mined their indiscretions for big bucks payoffs—like hooker, whore, skank and slut. I wish the media would stop honoring these calculating bimbos with the term “mistress” and call them what they really are.
“Mistress” or Whore?
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April 28, 2009 at 10:17 am
SO TRUE!!! and perfect is kinda boring… now where do i find Mr. Imperfect??
April 28, 2009 at 10:19 am
does “perfect” even still exist?
April 28, 2009 at 11:01 am
I think my wife would disagree. She did, in fact, find the perfect man. The key is to redefine your definition of perfect. If you define perfect as whatever you’re blessed with, then you can have a perfect mate, perfect children, perfect parents, and even perfect friends like I have.
April 28, 2009 at 11:33 am
Perfect is in the eye of the beholder!
April 28, 2009 at 12:33 pm
Rita,
I am perfect-whole and complete!!
So are you!!
You are funny and have great Passion for Life! Thats Perfect!!!
April 28, 2009 at 2:20 pm
it is an inside job – you have to be the right person to attract the right person
And it is not about perfect, it is being the best that you can be so that you can learn and grow and be that for your ‘perfect’ partner.
April 28, 2009 at 7:14 pm
Maybe you can find “perfect” in a combination of men. Who says that there has to be just one? The more the merrier, isn’t that the way the saying goes? One for intellectual stimulation to preclude mental atrophy, gotta have one for shopping cuz you know that your friends will never tell you the truth about whether your rear actually looks “ok” in that pair of jeans, and one for you know what! In all honesty, we all know that we connect on a different level with everyone, thats why we have more than one friend; so, why not more than one man? I rest my case!
May 1, 2009 at 1:45 am
Why wait life will just pass you bye. I found my Prince but I never sat at home waiting either. You must live for now and love for today. Your Prince will never find you, if your sitting at home.
September 20, 2009 at 8:19 pm
While you’re still looking for Mr. Right, you can have a helluva lot of fun with Mr. Right Now!
September 21, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Attraction is key. I’ve known lots of men but have only ever truly loved one because he is intelligent, fun, funny and caring. The key is to be going in the same direction and to have similar values. No one is perfect.